LET THEM FACE IT SLOWLY....NOT ALL OF A SUDDEN

I know, every parent wants to keep their child safe and so they do everything to make sure that their child never faces any problem. But does it really works?

HELLO!

OKAY...
LET'S START!
Everything was fine until the end of 2019 and then after everything got ruined...
hey..! 
I am not talking about COVID-19, that's also the reason but here I'm not talking about that.
For me, the problem was to face the world.
I know, you are like ...."wait, what?"
But yeah...
The thing is, like all parents my parents are also protective.....wait, more protective...no no no I should say they are overprotective. They always made sure we get everything we needed. We never had to make any afford, we were always in a safe environment. 

Do you know a story about a protective mother...

A long time back there was a woman who had a very beautiful daughter. She loved her so much, she said "My princesses you are my blessing, I'll always protect you .." and she was always there for her. 
One day when the daughter started eating by herself, her mother said "Oh! my baby don't worry ..I'll feed you." and when the daughter started walking she said, "No no my child you will hurt yourself ...let me carry you on my back ...".She never let her child face any problem and one day when she felt she was becoming weak and could no longer move by her self she asked her daughter, "My baby, I always fed you but now I need you to feed me as I am growing old I can't do it myself ..."
The daughter was shocked and said, " Amma, you always fed me. I never used my hands ...my hands vanished, Amma..."
Mother said, alright then carry me on your back ...I'll find the food.
The daughter said, " Amma, you always carried me on your back...I never walked ...I don't know how to use my leg..."
The mother got angry and said you are useless and everything I did for you was a waste. And she threw her daughter into the sea.
The daughter kept crying and screaming, " Amma, what did I do ...
Amma, please take me back ...Amma Amma Amma Aaaammmmmmmmaaaaa
what did I do wrong...Please Amma come back.."

Yeah, I could connect to the story but please don't miss understand me I'm not saying that the child should be left on his own.
What I mean, be there for them but at least let them try, let them face problems... 
Protecting them is not always correct but teaching them how to face the problem is always.
I don't blame any parent for being overprotective but the thing is if a child is always in a protective zone and is suddenly pushed out into the world ...
Don't you think it would be difficult...hmm

I think you know the answer  ...so what do you think ?



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